I often wonder when do you say you are sorry to someone? So many have been trying to answer this question but few know the answer. See we all fall short and really don't mean what we say but sometimes people take what we say literally. Sometimes enough is enough and remember the old saying that if you don't stand up for yourself who else will. I have personally been through this for years wondering when to say no or enough is enough. See we sometimes do things we don't want to do but we do it anyway because of that other person and then you still hurt that person anyway. I'm writing this to you guys because many deal with this and don't know how to handle it like myself. Sure you try to look into the future and see all the wonderful things that could happen and then you come back to reality, that it's always going to be this way. Remember this saying the more you try to help someone the more you are creating problems for yourself. See I'm not in any way a selfish person but sometimes you have to make tough decisions and put yourself before others and deal with the circumstances taht could follow. Now you might not want to hear or know this but sometimes what you say could affect you for the rest of your life. I often wonder why my life is the way it is maybe because I love being alone sometimes or maybe because I have been used by family members and enough is enough. Sure I hate saying that especially to those who you care for but it needs to be said. I have been this way most of my life never being able to say no to anyone and you look up you have nothing and hurt in the end. Always wanting to lend a hand and try to save someone or make someone life easier and you look up you are on the outside looking in.

 

Now we need to deal with when do you say you are sorry or do you even say sorry in the first place. Are you wrong for trying to do the right thing and in the process you had to hurt someone feelings in the first place. If you think back into your life would you change a decision you made knowing you made the right decision for everyone? Sometimes things don't always go your way or the way you planned it. Sure before making a decision you think it through playing it in your mind a thousand times hoping that it would go a certain way but when it time to say something it goes totally wrong. So do you say I'm sorry the way it came out or do you just say I'm sorry. Maybe you aren't sorry for the outcome but you are sorry how it came out or the way you said it. Let me give you a word of advice (Please Please) watch what you say and how you say it because you could hurt someone feelings just because you are trying to help someone. Life is funny and it gives you all tpyes of turns but the only thing is you have to ready for the outcome and hold on tight or you will be just saying sorry for nothing.